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Last week I wrote about the things you shouldn’t say or do when a loved one’s child has passed away. This week I wanted to talk about the opposite and highlight the things you should say or do to help that loved one.
Acknowledgment
Show some acknowledgement, if you have been informed of this terrible tragedy, take a step towards that person and acknowledge what has happened, ignoring won’t do anyone any good.
Be there for them
Be by their side and show them that you care and are hurting for them too. Let them know that if they need anything you are there for them. If you physically cannot be with then a simple telephone call and message to show your support will be enough.
Listen
One of the most simplest things that you can do but often becomes the most difficult. Whether you’re sat next to each other or are at the other end of the telephone, just listen. Listen to whatever they have to say. It can go a long way for the bereaved parent.
Keep checking in
As time passes by, don’t forget that your loved one is still in pain. The pain and heartbreak of losing a child does not ease as the time goes by so make sure you keep checking in to see how they are. A simple ‘how are you’ can be enough.
Set a reminder
Set a reminder on your phone of significant dates. This may be a due date or the actual angelversary/birthday of the child and when the time comes show your support, let them know that you haven’t forgotten.
Keepsakes
Perhaps look into getting a keepsake for your loved one might be helpful.
Ask them the child’s name
This really does go a long way and goes in line with acknowledgement.
These are just a few tips that I came up with that helped me or would’ve helped me. Everyone’s circumstances are different and we all grieve in different ways so you have to be the better judge and decide what would be helpful for your loved one.
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Do you have anything to share? Please do in the comments below, it would be so helpful.
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